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- What if I were to tell you that there were three words that you can say that will instantly build attraction with any man. And if you understand the meaning behind these three words, it will be the difference from being single, alone, frustrated in your love life versus finding the man you can truly spend the rest of your life with. Keep watching. (gentle music) Hey there, my name is Adam LoDolce from LoveStrategies.com, where I help women successfully get out there and find love and do with a proven strategy. And if you enjoyed this video, please give it a like, don't forget to subscribe, 'cause I have a lot more content coming for you this upcoming week. Now, of course, you're gonna have to say more than just three words, but these three words really encompass a deeper set of principles and mindsets that you can bring to your love life in order to track that man that you truly deeply deserve. So let's jump right into it, shall we? The first word is no. Now, I've been a professional love strategist for the past 10 years. And one thing I've found about this incredible community of women, is that all of you women tend to be very nice people. And that's a good thing because it comes from, I think, a very good place. You want to please other people, and when you're in a relationship, you tend to give and give and give. But here is the problem, people who tend to be nice, tend to be very bad at setting boundaries. And what are boundaries exactly? Boundaries are essentially an invisible line that separates you from another person. And it tells them, basically, what is acceptable and what is not acceptable. And sometimes in order to set boundaries, you need to say, no. So I want to hear from you in the comments, do you have problems setting boundaries and saying no when you're really attracted to a guy? Leave that comment right there below. The second word is wait. When you first start dating and talking to a guy, it's very important for you to pace things, for you to slow things down because, chances are, if a guy's attracted to you, he's going to want to move pretty fast. And sadly, a lot of women think that if they tell a guy to wait or slow things down, that the guy will go elsewhere. And sure that is sometimes true, but chances are, if the guy flakes out that quickly, he was never interested in anything serious in the first place. And more importantly, for those guys who are open to a relationship, they'll be willing to wait. There'll be patient. And by waiting before sleeping together, committing to each other, before moving in together, before jumping right into a relationship, by being patient, you actually give yourself a little bit more time to build a real emotional connection with one another. I'll explain all this in my free training, where I teach you the three steps to building emotional attraction any manner. I'll leave a link in the comments so you can watch the training. And the final word is, thank you. Although I guess that's two words, so let's just say, thanks. It's very important, as you're going out there and meeting and dating men, to be able to receive his energy. For example, if a man compliments you, rather than pushing him away, receive it and just say, "Thank you." If a man tries to pay on the first couple of dates, rather than fight it because you are an independent woman who makes her own money, rather than do that, just receive it and say, "Thanks." If a is trying to step up and be a provider, and let's say, you're cold, and he puts his jacket around you, rather than saying, "No, no, no, I don't need your jacket." Receive it, and look at him and say, "Thank you." This will build instant attraction with a man because it allows him to step into his masculine energy and it allows you to step into your feminine energy. Which these words do struggle with the most, no, wait, or thanks? Leave a comment right there below. And on that note, I want to thank you so much for being a part of this incredible community. Keep learning, keep growing, and of course, come join me on that free training. I'll see you there in just a minute. And don't forget to subscribe to this channel 'cause we have a lot of content coming up for you, sexy single ladies, in the next couple of weeks. Thank you so much for watching. I'll speak to you very soon. Bye bye.