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- Look, the way to succeed in both life and in love is to submit yourself to a proven process to making it happen. And look, success in love doesn't happen by accident. It's not like in those rom-com movies where you're just walking, it comes out of nowhere. It comes when you are actually ready and when you make the decision that you wanna make it happen. And most people don't realize that not making a decision is actually a decision in itself. Not deciding to find love is a decision you're making every single day of your life. So if you're actually ready to magnetically attract the love of your life, I need you to pay very close attention to this video because I'm gonna be talking about the three ways, the three steps that you can take to be able to get out there and truly magnetically attract the man that you truly deserve. You are part of the Sexy Confidence Club relaunch, and I cannot tell you how grateful I am to have all of you as part of this incredible community. I am humbled every single day to be able to wake up to new comments and feedback from all of you. For those women who decide to not rely on hope dating, to actually take action in their love life, to get out there and be able to find the love life that they truly deserve, and for those of you who have just been kinda watching these videos who haven't acted on it, who haven't joined the club yet, regardless of whether or not you join the club, I just wanna tell you this one thing. And that is that you deserve love. You deserve it. And the core focus of all of Sexy Confidence is that you can create your love story. You can manifest it in your own life. It's just a matter of understanding how to do that. So the first step in being able to magnetically attract the love of your life is to really build your love life vision in 3D. Now what I mean by that is really, let's start by talking about what it is that most people do when they think about their love life. Well, what it is they do is they carry around this black heart, and I actually talk about this with Kate Gosselin on TLC, is she had what I call black-heart syndrome. And that is that all of the baggage, all of the (beep) that's gone in her life in the past, and maybe you relate to this, you bring forward into a future relationship. And you just hope, and you say, "I want this thing, I want this relationship," but you carry around this black heart everywhere you go and you don't actually have a vision for what you want. So a lot of what it is that I do as part of the Sexy Confidence Club and part of the community is help you really build your love life vision in 3D. And think about it from an emotional standpoint. How do you want to feel in that relationship? Rather than what a guy looks like, how do you want him to treat you? What is it that you want your overall life to look like, and how does your love life actually fit into that? So rather than focusing all of your energy on just your relationship status, because we know that relationship status doesn't really matter, there are a lotta people out there who are in relationships that are miserable in their life, what I want you to start thinking about is what do you want your love life to actually look like? And that is exactly what it is that I do in the Sexy Confidence Club, is we help you through courses and trainings to really start developing your own vision, because it might be different than other people's vision, and be able to develop this as you go along. So principle number two of being able to magnetically attract the love life you truly deserve and be able to create your love story is to remember this very simple principle, and that is that you are the prize that he is begging to win over. And this is just a mentality shift because the moment you start believing that you are the prize that he needs to open up and be able to win over, suddenly you don't stand for the bullshit anymore. You actually stand up for yourself. And if someone is not valuing you in a relationship, you don't stand for that and you walk onto the next one. You say that four-letter magic word, which is "next", and find someone who does treat you like that prize. And look, I know it can be really hard to remember that you are the prize, especially when you are put in a situation when a guy ghosts on you or when he's not giving you what it is that you need and you feel like you deserve better but you're not really sure. So that's why we have this incredible community as part of the Sexy Confidence Club. That's why I designed it this way, because not only myself, I wanna be there for you, but I also have literally thousands of other women who are going through what it is that you're going through who can share some of those experiences and boost you up and make you remember that you are the prize. So that's the second part. And the third part of magnetically attracting the love life that you truly deserve is to take action. No one, and I mean no one, will attract the love of their life sitting at home, eating Ben & Jerry's, watching Netflix, okay. It just doesn't happen that way. You have to get out there. You have to be able to put yourself in sometimes uncomfortable situations but with the end goal of finding that love life you truly deserve. And if you think about it, a lot of the progression of relationships is going from kinda this black heart, this damage that you have in the past, and working your way all the way to love. And many times, it just starts with that one step forward, just taking that one little step that can be able to help you be able to finally attract the love life you truly deserve. So what I recommend is you take that one simple step forward. Come join me in the Sexy Confidence Club. Be able to see the link right there below or you can head on over to SexyConfidence.com if you're not there right now. And I look forward to welcoming you. To be a part of this incredible community of other sexy, single ladies who are going to walk with you on your journey to finding love. Thank you so much for being a part of this community, and don't forget to comment right there below. If you are ready to find love, just say it, "I'm ready to create my love story." Thank you so much, and I'll talk to you soon, bye-bye.