3 Common Dating Tips You Should NEVER Listen To

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- Life hack number 276: never take dating advice from your mother or your single girlfriends who have been divorced two times because if you do, chances are they're gonna give you the same bad dating advice that I reveal in this video, and instead of following this same old common dating advice that doesn't really work, I'm gonna reveal some strategies for you that have helped over 10,000 of our clients attract long-lasting love. Keep watching. (upbeat inspirational music) (heart beating) Hey, there, Adam LoDolce, founder of LoveStrategies.com, where we help successful single women get out there and attract long-lasting love, and if you like videos just like this, don't forget to give this video a like, and don't forget to subscribe or follow us on Instagram, wherever it is that you are watching this video. Now, if you've been single for any amount of time, you've probably noticed that a lotta people wanna give you dating advice, and here's the tricky thing about taking other people's advice: sometimes it's useful, but other times, it can completely distract you and make you focus on the wrong things, and here are the three most common pieces of dating advice that I do not recommend that you follow. The first one is that love will come when you least expect it. Now, the thing about this advice is that it feels really good to receive this, especially if you're not receiving a lotta love in your dating life, but what happens when you keep not expecting love, and it keeps not happening for years and years and years to follow? Chances are, I hate to say it, it's because you're kinda sitting back, doing the same old thing over and over and over again, hoping that love will come to you, and even worse, maybe sitting at home, watching Netflix, eating Ben and Jerry's, hoping that love is gonna find you. Well, I hate to break it to you, but you gotta get off the couch in order to attract love. Now, the caveat to this is that we're not going to chase love, okay? If a man is not giving you his love and his affection freely, then we're not gonna be chasing that. However, we're also not gonna be sitting at home, hoping that it finds us. In my Love Accelerated Coaching Program, we just released this brand new tool called the Social Score tool, and what this does is this is a tool for tracking the number of new people you're meeting every single month, and the most incredible part of this tool is we have a leaderboard, and you can actually see the people in my coaching program who are getting out there and meeting the most amount of people, and it just incentivizes you to on that Friday night, when you're not feeling like going out, and you just wanna sit at home, just kick your feet up and watch Netflix, it incentivizes you to instead, get out the door and put yourself in situations where you might meet guys. The second most common dating advice that I hear all the time is, "Oh, honey, just be yourself." Now, I do appreciate the general sentiment of this advice, which is don't change yourself for other people, but this idea of just be yourself kind of reinforces this message that you shouldn't change anything about your strategy for finding love, and worse, what if being yourself is going on a date, being negative, having horrible body language, and talking about yourself the entire date? If that is just being yourself, then I don't know, maybe you shouldn't be that person. When you're going out and meeting people, going on first dates, and just engaging in this process that we call the Little Love Steps, I want you to be your most positive and most engaging self when you're getting out there and meeting high-quality men, and then the final most common piece of dating advice that I do not recommend that you follow is this idea of playing hard to get. When people tell you to play hard to get, there's this implication that you are playing a game, and instead of playing hard to get, instead, I want you to be hard to get, which means you have such an active social life, you have so much going on in your own life, you have a lot of substance to yourself that naturally, you're not just going to let in any guy into your world without him having to work for it, so by nature, you will be hard to get. Notice how this has nothing to do with playing games, and it's all about being your authentic self who has an incredible life that a man is going to have to work really freaking hard to get into. So I wanna hear from you in the comments below. Have you ever fallen into the trap of following any of this dating advice? Love to hear from you in the comments, and also, if you'd like to learn more about the principles I talked about in this video, it really follows this process that I call the Little Love Steps, and we have a free training that will walk you through the seven Little Love Steps to attracting long-lasting love. We'll leave a link in the comments right there below, or you can go to LitteLoveSteps.com, be able to watch the entire training to understand exactly what it is that I'm talking about, and really, these are the underpinnings of my Love Accelerated Coaching Program. So get on it. Go ahead and do that, and also if you did enjoy this video, I'd really appreciate it. Just give this a like, and make sure to follow us 'cause we have a lot of content coming your way very soon. Speak to you very soon. Bye-bye.

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