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- There is nothing, and I mean nothing less hot than a bunch of desperate girls at the bar. Hey, look at those hot guys over there. Oh yeah, I would take a bite of that ass. (growls) I think I love his penis, and I haven't even seen it yet. Yo, dude, check out these girls. They're checking us out. What are they doing, dude? (groans) Come over here, boys. No, no, no, no, no, nothing about any of that is hot, and you might think that's exaggeration, but I'm telling you I've seen some (bleep). So right now in this video, I'm gonna be talking about four desperate girl signals that immediately turn men off, and you know what? You may not think that you're doing these things, but watch this whole video, because I guarantee you're guilty of one of 'em. Keep watching. (lively music) Hey there, Adam Lodolce from SexyConfidence.com where I help you create your love story, and this video is all about the signals that we emit when we are going out that may read that we are just a little bit too desperate. And I should say that these signals are certainly not just women being desperate when they are going out at night. Men are definitely guilty of these as well. However, of course, this channel and Sexy Confidence is for you sexy, single ladies to learn how to confidently find love. So once you understand these signals that you may be pushing out there to the universe, maybe you can actually reel it back in a little bit. And if you enjoy this video, make sure you subscribe on YouTube right now, so you don't miss a single video I've released, as well as check me out on Instagram @SexyConfidence, because we have ton of great content there as well. So let's jump into those desperate girl signals. Signal number one is staring all night at the person you want to talk to. Look, there is a big difference between glancing at someone and maybe doing a little bit of a smirk, and then going back the conversation. Just enough green light, so that person knows that you're interested. There's a big difference between that and just straight up staring at someone all night long. And look, in all seriousness, when you're going out at night, yeah, of course, give those glances, give those smiles, but don't just focus all of your energy on that one guy, because he's going to feel that energy, and it's going to feel a little bit desperate. So spread the energy and be the most social person when you're going out at night. And who knows, that guy that you've been staring at all night, he might completely suck. I mean, he might kick kittens. Who knows. (kitten meows) Don't give him all of your energy. Spread the love a little bit, and who knows, maybe that other guy who you weren't as physically attracted to might end up being one of the coolest guys and the funniest guys you've ever met. Spread the love. Desperate girl signal number two is doing the double text. If you're noticing that when you're texting guys, there is way more blue on the screen versus gray, which are his responses, then you know that you kinda have a problem. The double text is where you text someone, and then they don't respond, so you text them again, and then maybe they don't respond, so then you text them again. Now, you're a triple text. You wanna be careful of the triple text, don't do it. I don't know if you know this, but 99.999% of people carry this little guy around them everywhere they go. He saw your text. He probably even thought about it for a few minutes, but clearly he didn't respond for a reason, and the worst thing that you can do is keep texting over and over and over again, because you haven't gotten that response. I know it can be hard to be patient, especially when you're excited or you're really interested or worse, when there are problems in the relationship, but I ask you to find the patience from within and not do the double text. Desperate girl signal number three is posting on social media just to get his attention. Does your social media absolutely blow up with stories, with pictures, every single time your guy goes out without you, and worse off, are you doing this because you want him to be looking on his phone thinking, what are you doing that is so God damn fun? Needless to say, this is just a cheap desperate ploy to be able to get someone's attention. Social media is not a place to make someone jealous, and more importantly, it's not a place to get a guy's attention, especially when he's not giving you his attention. So if a guy is blowing you off and he's not giving you the attention that you want, rather than posting on social media with pictures that make it seem like you have a cool life, rather than do that what I want you to actually do, and I know this is crazy, go out and actually create a really cool social life. Call a bunch of old friends, actually do something that is really fun, and be present while you're doing those things. Or if you have a hobby or something you've always wanted to do, or an interest, or something like that, go out and do those things and don't do it just so that you can get a guy's attention. Do it because it fulfills you on a deeper level. This, in turn, will naturally make you less emotionally needy, because you already are very content with your amazing life. And finally, signal number four is every single time you get drunk, you overshare every single feeling you have about him and this relationship that you may or may not have with him. If you find that whenever you get really drunk, your entire dating life implodes and then explodes all at the same time, then it's time to take a look at this habit a little bit. So in the future, if this does happen, tone it back a little bit on your drinking and see how your love life naturally smooths out a little bit. So I wanna hear from you. Which of these are you most guilty of? Leave a comment right there below, and also, if you enjoyed this video, then I have a great training that I think you'll really enjoy. It is completely free. It's called, "Why Men Pull Away." I'll leave a link in the description or in my bio. I think you're gonna really enjoy that, and it goes over three biggest dating mistakes that most women make when they go out and try to meet men. And also, if you enjoyed this video, please don't forget to subscribe on YouTube and don't forget to follow on Instagram @SexyConfidence, and of course, head on over to SexyConfidence.com where I have a ton of resources that will help you through every single stage of dating, finding love, and all that good stuff. Thank you so much for watching. I'll speak to you very soon, you sexy single lady, buh-bye.