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- Now, there are two ways that men are attracted to a woman. The first way is through physical attraction. They see you, and they are attracted to you. And the second way is through what I call emotional attraction. And this is simply when you're attracted to someone on a deep, emotional level. You really care about that person, and you wanna be with them for the long haul. Now, sadly, a lot of women don't realize that sometimes men can just be physically attracted to you. They may not be emotionally invested in the relationship. And of course, if you're serious about finding long-lasting love, this is not very good. But when a man is emotionally attracted to you, there are a few phrases that he'll say throughout the progression of the relationship that will tell you he's into it. So let me jump into those four phrases right now. Keep watching. (uplifting music) Hey there, Adam LoDolce from LoveStrategies.com, where I help successful single women get out there and attract a long lasting love, and do it with a proven strategy. And if you enjoy the video, make sure you head on over to LoveStrategies.com or click the link anywhere in the description where I have a special webinar that's going to teach you the three steps to building emotional attraction with any man. And also if you enjoy the video, please give it a like, and don't forget to subscribe because we're gonna have a lot of content coming your way. Now let's jump into those four phrases that a man will say if he's emotionally attracted to you. Now, the first phrase he'll say is that I've never met someone like you before. When we fall for someone and we're falling in love and we're emotionally attracted to them, typically we see that person as being very special. And studies after studies show that we tend to categorize that person as different than anyone else out there, which is what ultimately bonds us to that person. So if he starts seeing you as just being this incredible snowflake that is unlike anyone else on the planet, and he's saying words like that, he's probably emotionally attracted to you. The second phrase he'll say is, I don't want to date other people. Statistically speaking, men tend to fall in love faster than women do. And if you're building emotional attraction with a man, he's going to want to jump into that relationship pretty quickly. He doesn't want you going out with other men. In fact, he just wants you all to himself. But I should say, remember, don't jump in too quickly. You are in control of the process, and you control the pace. It's perfectly okay to spend a couple of months getting to know a person before going completely exclusive with them. The third phrase he'll say is, let's do something together. When a man is emotionally attracted to you, he's gonna wanna spend time with you outside of the bedroom. And when a man is only physically attracted to you, he's only going to wanna spend time in the bedroom. Now I have a deep, dark confession that I don't think I've ever told this story publicly, but I'm gonna do it. Now, I remember back in my 20s before I was ever a dating coach, and when I was a total just (beep) kid and didn't know what I was doing, I was casually dating a girl, and we were hooking up for a couple months. And then I remember, one day she invited me to go for a walk in the park. And that was the last time I ever talked to her. I know, that sounds so horrible, and it's certainly not the person I am today. But that's a perfect example of me only being physically attracted to her. I wasn't emotionally involved in the relationship, and the moment that she wanted to spend some time outside of the bedroom, I was just not into it. That definitely doesn't excuse the behavior, but at least it explains that behavior. And then the final phrase that he'll say is let's plan something together. When a man is emotionally attracted to a woman, he starts thinking about the future and what that really means for the two of you. How is he going to provide for you, and how are you going to be a part of his life, and how is he going to be a part of your life, even planning vacations and enjoyable time together. He's going to be all about talking about the future. And when a man is not emotionally attracted to you, it's all going to be short-term, and he's gonna avoid any type of talk about the future. So let me hear from you in the comments below. Have you ever heard a guy say any of these phrases to you? Leave a comment right there below. And finally, if you are ready to take this to the next level and learn how to build emotional attraction with any man, again, click the link in the description or head on over to LoveStrategies.com. You won't wanna miss that webinar. Thank you so much for watching, and I'll speak to you, you sexy single lady, next week, bye bye.