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- Now we're about to explore some deep hidden parts of the male brain that I guarantee you have never explored before. And although some parts of the male brain are so disgusting, so off putting, that you should never ever go there, the things I'm actually about to be talking about right now I think are gonna make you very happy. In this video, I'm gonna be talking about the four things that men deeply desire in a woman. And you know what, they're gonna give you the warm and fuzzies. Trust me, keep watching. (light music) Hey there, I'm Adam LoDolce from LoveStrategies.com where I help successful single women get out there and successfully find love and do it with a proven strategy. And if you're ready to attract the man that you deeply desire, give this video a like. Give it a heart. Give yourself a little bit of good dating karma out there. It really helps me out a lot. I really appreciate it. Now the four things I'm gonna talk about in this video are things that men deeply desire, but they will never actually reveal it to you. And honestly, they may not even realize that they like these things unless you actually talk to them about it. And then they'll be like, you know what, yeah, I'm into that. So let's jump right into it. Number one is cuddling. In a recent study of nearly 700 college students, they found that 97% of both men and women like cuddling. I mean, do you know how substantial 97% really is? 97% statistically never happens. That means basically everyone loves to cuddle. I mean, just to give some perspective, do you know that only 66% of people believe that the world is actually round? So for all you ladies watching, there are two realities. Number one is men really, truly, do like to cuddle in romantic relationships. And number two, the earth really is (beeping) round. Number two is companionship. Believe it or not, men really are looking for not only just a sexual connection but also a friendship in their lover. Now back in the day, I used to coach men on how to successfully get out there and flirt and meet you, yes you, you sexy single ladies. And went I would ask these guys what it is that they really want in a woman in a relationship, they would very rarely ever go sexual. In fact, I can't remember a single time a guy would ever say that he just wanted something short term. Every guy I worked with wanted the whole package. They wanted a companion. They wanted to spend their life with someone. They actually wanted a real relationship. And Pew research actually backs this up and it says that both men and women are equally as likely to want to get married. So gone is that myth that only women are the ones that want to settle down. Both men and women want companionship. Number three is emotional intimacy. Now you as a woman have probably realized at this point in your life that when you hook up with someone, it is much more pleasurable and much more enjoyable process when you actually love that person. And let me tell you something, us guys, we've realized that too. Now a lot of guys have gone through phases in their life where they don't want a relationship. Maybe they just want to go out there and have a little bit of fun. What they tend to realize is that type of sex leaves you feeling kind of hollow. And most of the time, guys come out of that phase realizing that they need a girlfriend or a wife. No more of this whole casual dating thing. And finally the fourth desire that men deeply desire but would never ask for is variety. Now a core human need for both men and women is for variety. And sadly, research has shown that 70% of both men and women have cheated on a partner at some point in their life. So of course we don't want that to happen because we teach monogamous healthy relationships. So the way to avoid that is to really just spice it up a little bit. You need to have variety in your relationship. When things start to turn really stale, that's when you're getting yourself into a danger zone. Keep things fresh. Experience new things together. Go explore new things together. You want to keep not only your relationship fresh, but keep your life fresh. And if you're at a point in your life where you finally said, I've had it. I am ready to finally attract the man that I deeply desire, that I can spend the rest of my life with, then make sure you head on over to LoveStrategies.com because we have a ton of resources over there that are going to help you through every single stage of finding love and keeping love. Especially with our Love Accelerator coaching program. You can find that at LoveStrategies.com/Coaching. And finally, I want to hear from you in the comments below which of these four desires are you also into? All four of 'em? Maybe one or two? Leave a comment right there below. Thank you so much for watching and I'll speak to you, you sexy single lady, next week. All right, bye-bye.