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5 Types of Men to Avoid (#3 will DRAIN your energy)

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- Now, when you're getting out there and meeting men, you are going to encounter two different types of guys. Number one are real men who put in real energy into relationships and dating, and then you're gonna encounter some men-children. (gasps loudly) Now, men are secure as mother(beep) grownups who are as comfortable with who they are and what they can bring to a relationship. Whereas men-children will make you wanna delete every single app from your phone and become a lesbian for the rest of your life. But before you go off and do that, let me walk you through the five different types of men to absolutely avoid in your love life, so that you don't have to go and do that. In this way, you can shed yourself of all that toxicity that you may encounter throughout your love life, and then focus all of your energy on attracting high quality men, that actually deserve your time. Keep watching. (bright upbeat music) Hey there, Adam LoDolce. I'm the head strategist over here where we help single women successfully find long-lasting love and do it with a proven strategy. If you haven't done it yet, please give this video a like, if you're watching this on YouTube or a heart if you're watching on Instagram, that really helps me out a lot. So please do that and don't forget to subscribe or follow me because you are not gonna wanna miss the content we have coming out over the next couple of weeks. And if you are ready to build your own love strategy, so that you can finally get out there and attract a high quality man, I really urge you to go ahead and apply to speak to one of my traiNed love strategists for a complimentary phone call at LoveApply.com, or you can click the link right there below. If we do think you're a fit for our coaching program called Love Accelerator and if we still have availability, we would be happy to open up a spot for you. So go ahead and apply right now. Don't forget to do that. Now my Love Accelerator clients are very aware of what we call emotional energy vampires. These are blood-sucking vampire, basically people who suck all of your energy from you and completely distract you from what actually matters, which is attracting long-lasting love. So in this video, I'll not only teach you how to avoid the men-children, but I'll also teach you how to avoid the emotional energy blood-sucking vampire men-children. They might also get in too when you're getting out there, meeting people. Let's get into it. The first type of guy that you really wanna avoid when you're getting out there meeting people, is the needy Ned. He's the type of guy that when you meet him, he just goes all in. He is love bombing you. The first type of guy that you really wanna avoid, when you're getting out there meeting people is the needy Ned. He's the type of guy that when you meet him, he just goes all in. He is love bombing you. The first type of guy that you really wanna avoid, when you're getting out there meeting people, is the needy Ned. He's the type of guy that when you meet him, he just goes all in. He is love bombing you. The first type of guy that you really wanna avoid, when you're getting out there meeting people, is the needy Ned. He's the type of guy that when you meet him, he just goes all in. He is love bombing you. The first type of guy that you really wanna avoid, when you're getting out there meeting people, is the needy Ned. He's the type of guy that when you meet him, he just goes all in. He is love bombing you. The first type of guy that you really wanna avoid, when you're getting out there meeting people, is the needy Ned. He's the type of guy that when you meet him, he just goes all in. He is love bombing you. The first type of guy that you really wanna avoid, when you're getting out there meeting people, is the needy Ned. He's the type of guy that when you meet him, he just goes all in. He is love bombing you, he's texting you constantly. He wants to see you. Whether you see him on a Monday, he then wants to see you on Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday and then weekend comes, he wants to spend the weekend with you. And it feels like too much, but you wanna give in because you're at a point where you're ready for a relationship. So you think, "Well, this is really cool." And then you finally do give in, you dive deep into this relationship only to find out three months later, that needy Ned moves on to be needy Ned with another woman. It's guys like this who go in and out of relationships, really hard, really strong. They tend to be pretty insecure about themselves, which is why they need so much affection so quickly, but then once you actually reciprocate with that affection, they tend to back away and move on to the next. Avoid the needy Ned. The second type of guy is the freedom Frankie. This is the type of guy that can be deeply falling in love with you, but he's always keeping his distance, because he fights for his freedom so hard that he is not even willing to consider being in a relationship. And he'll go so far to even just protect himself from falling in love. He will back away the moment he starts to be affectionate with you, or the moment you start to be affectionate with him and you can tell in his eyes that he has feelings for you, but he's protecting his freedom with all his energy. I know this guy pretty well because I used to be that guy. Back in my twenties, I would fight for my freedom with everything I had, because I was at a stage in my life where I wanted to be able to travel a lot. I wanted to have a lot of freedom in my life and being in a hardcore long-term relationship, was just not in the cards for me. So anytime I would find myself starting to fall for a woman, I would start to back away and fight for my freedom with all my might. Guy number three is the selfish Sam. This is the guy where dating is just all about him and his needs and what he can get out of it for himself. Sometimes these men can even be narcissists where they only look at their own needs and wants and have little to no concern about you. He'll consistently lie to be able to get out of situations, he doesn't wanna be in or he'll lie about quite frankly, anything that avoids any type of confrontation or difficult conversations, because he doesn't wanna deal with it. He wants to be able to live on his terms and make himself happy with again, no concern about you. It's almost like your only reason for existing is to serve this guy. And it's almost impossible to be in a healthy relationship with someone like this, because in a healthy relationship, both of you are giving and putting in and wanting to make the other person happy, thus creating a very healthy, happier relationship. Guy number four is the no effort Nick. This is the type of guy who will respond to your texts, but he's not really initiating, or maybe he will initiate texts, but he never makes plans, because he doesn't put in any effort. In our Love Accelerator coaching program, we call this orbiters. These are people who kinda live in your orbit, whether it's guys you're talking to on dating apps or online dating, or even guys you've met out and about, they might text you a lot, but they actually put a note effort to see you, to take you out or to progress things forward. My clients avoid these men at all costs, because we never invest more on a person than they are investing in us. Never invest a lot of emotional energy in someone like no effort Nick. And the final guy that you want to avoid like the absolute plague, is controlling Cam. This is the type of guy who literally beats to his own drum and by the way, if you don't beat to that same drum, he's going to have a real problem with that. If you wanna have a night out with your girlfriends away from him, he wants to know exactly where you're going, what time you'll be there and what time you're leaving and he wants to hear from you, the moment you leave that venue. He's the type of guy that makes you have to see his family and spend time there, but when it comes time to actually do anything that you wanna do, sorry, he's not available. He'll go so far to tell you what clothing you can and cannot wear. What's appropriate, what's not appropriate. I've heard stories about women telling me about men that require them to text pictures of what they're wearing before any night they go out together. This is a controlling Cam. So I wanna hear from you in the comments below, which of these five types of guys have you ever dated? So moving forward, I want you to set a new standard for yourself. No more investing your energy into men who are going to absolutely drain all of your emotional energy. No more giving into the controlling Cam and no more chasing the no effort Nick for more attention, no more. From this point forward, you know the type of men to avoid and if you are ready to start attracting the right type of men and know exactly what to look for when you're getting out there and meeting men, I do recommend you apply for our Love Accelerator coaching at LoveApply.com. You can speak to one of my trained love strategists, and we will walk you through the little love steps so that you can finally attract that relationship and that men that you truly deserve. Thank you so much for watching and I'll speak to you next week. Bye bye.

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